A student or staff member
is
reported to have committed suicide.
Primary Intervention. What can be
done to stop a crisis from happening through eliminating hazards
or modifying situation:
- to detect suicidal students
- to assess the severity of their suicidal thoughts and/or actions
- to notify the parents
- to secure needed supervision and services for the students
- to assure the school's main function is to identify a course
of action, not be a treatment facility
- Verbal signs. "I wish I
were dead – No one cares if I live or die – Things
would be better if I weren't here."
- Behavior clues. Alcohol or drug
abuse, previous attempts, giving away possessions, making a will,
sudden change in behavior (e.g. quiet student becomes talkative,
friendly student becomes quiet), significant drop in grades, risk-taking
behavior resulting in accidents or injuries.
- Situational clues. End of serious
relationship, divorce or death of a parent, family financial difficulties,
moving to new location (other stresses among family members).
- Syndromatic clues. Social isolation,
depression, disorientation, changes in sleeping and/or eating
patterns, dissatisfaction (constant complaining, helpless or hopeless
feelings).
- Listen and hear. Avoid false
reassurances that "everything will be okay." Never demean
suicidal expressions. Don't be judgmental or moralizing.
- Be supportive. Communicate concern
for the person.
- Be sensitive. Take any suicidal
complaint seriously even if expressed in a calm voice. When the
person speaks of clear-cut self-destructive plans, the situation
is usually much more serious.
- Don't be mislead into ignoring
suicide signals. Tell others. It may be necessary to betray a
secret to save a life.
- Encourage students to look out
for each other and to seek help for a friend if that friend won't
seek it out on their own.
- Stay with a suicidal person if
there seems to be immediate danger. Call on whoever is needed.
Do not try to handle everything alone.
Secondary Intervention. Provides
immediate assistance to an individual or group in handling a crisis
with the purpose of minimizing the effects of the suicidal crisis.
- Contain the story and protect the privacy of the family. Do
not refer to the death as a "suicide" and move to contain
the story until it has been verified.
- Direct the person who brings the message not to repeat it to
anyone. Explain that the information has not been verified. Even
if it is correct, it is important that the announcement come from
the principal in an appropriate and official manner.
- Instruct secretaries and others in the office not to repeat
anything that has been said or to give out any information until
the report has been verified. Do not allow news of the incident
to get out of hand.
- Verify the fact that the reported death did occur. Do not refer
to the death as a suicide. Do everything possible to verify the
facts of the case. Principals make the calls – to the police
or coroner – if necessary. Hospitals usually will not give
out information. Do not call the home.
- If the death is verified, notify the Superintendent (main administration
officials).
- Convene the school crisis team to assess the situation and implement
the appropriate plan of action.
- When a suicide is reported, hold a faculty meeting as soon as
possible. If it has to wait until the end of the day, give notice
of the meeting early. As soon as the facts are known, prepare
a brief written announcement to be distributed to teachers, which
they can read to students simultaneously throughout the school.
- Refer all inquiries for information from outside the school
to the district's director of public information. One person from
that office will serve as spokesperson for the district. Do not
allow reporters to interview any student or staff member in the
school or on the school grounds.
- Contact resources (school counselors or school social workers)
to work with students, parent(s) and staff, if needed. Contact
the Assistant Superintendent for Pupil and Parent Services for
specific referrals.
- Do not glorify the death in any way. Do not fly the school flag
at half-mast. Do not observe a moment of silence in school. Do
not have a memorial service at the school.
- Try to get things back to normal as soon as possible. Be sensitive
to the fact that certain students may have been profoundly affected
by the death. These students still need special help, but don't
let it become a "contagious action." Minimize the possibility
that other students may imitate behavior and take their own lives.
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